Every mother should tell her son.....................
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or
your sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a
system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary
achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people
who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your
family name
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef
from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new
circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is
expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at
the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more, and
yet never ever expected to complain;
to be a servant, a cook, a
mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like
you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times
and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she
learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends,
and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she
knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the
back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition
and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her
little and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you,
as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your generous
support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding,
or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this.......
Please appreciate "HER"
Yes Bacha I always Appreciate whatever u had done for me.....I know u have not done the Thing in my way
But u always Understand me
U always Know the things that makes me sad,Things that makes me happy.......& I do Respect u For that......... :) <3
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